- English translation
A grieving person's door looks as if it has been smeared with mud.
- Literal wording
The sorrowful person's doorway is marked with mud.
- Meaning and lesson
Here unhappiness is pictured not in the face or voice of the sufferer but on the entrance to their home, smudged with mud. A single grim detail at the threshold stands in for how thoroughly gloom has taken hold of someone's life.
The expression works through deliberate overstatement. A listener grasps at once that the person in question is in a sorry plight, well beyond ordinary low spirits, since even the approach to where they live seems dirtied by their trouble.
- When it is used
Suitable for remarking, with pointed exaggeration, on someone sunk in deep grief or misfortune, whose plight seems to stain even their surroundings. It describes a person's sorry state rather than offering advice or a warning.
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