- English translation
A kind word wins people over.
- Literal wording
Good speech makes [one] yield.
- Meaning and lesson
Pleasant, agreeable words have a way of disarming a person. The Arabic verb names no object, but the one understood to yield is the hearer: where bluntness might harden someone's position, a good word bends it, so they let down their guard and give way instead of digging in.
The giving way meant here is not grudging. A gracious manner of speaking draws out real consent, so the listener comes to accept what is said willingly and with goodwill, not merely because they were pushed.
- When it is used
Suitable when someone is about to press a point harshly or make blunt demands; saying it reminds them that a courteous, pleasant approach is more likely to bring the other person round than pressure or sharp words.
- Register
- colloquial
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