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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِلْكَلَامِ الطَّيِّبْ يِنْخِي»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

A kind word wins people over.

Literal wording

Good speech makes [one] yield.

Meaning and lesson

Pleasant, agreeable words have a way of disarming a person. The Arabic verb names no object, but the one understood to yield is the hearer: where bluntness might harden someone's position, a good word bends it, so they let down their guard and give way instead of digging in.

The giving way meant here is not grudging. A gracious manner of speaking draws out real consent, so the listener comes to accept what is said willingly and with goodwill, not merely because they were pushed.

When it is used

Suitable when someone is about to press a point harshly or make blunt demands; saying it reminds them that a courteous, pleasant approach is more likely to bring the other person round than pressure or sharp words.

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