- English translation
A son-in-law is no prized gain to his mother-in-law.
- Literal wording
A hen’s egg is no fortunate find, and a daughter’s husband is no hidden treasure.
- Meaning and lesson
Traditionally, the saying voices a stock view of in-law relations: a mother-in-law is not expected to treat her daughter’s husband as a cherished prize. It presents coolness or a lack of affection between these family members as ordinary rather than surprising.
Its two halves work in parallel. An ordinary hen’s egg is too common to count as a lucky find, and the son-in-law is likewise denied the status of something precious kept close. The comparison reflects a stereotype, not a judgment about real families.
- When it is used
Used for remarks about the stereotypically cool bond between a mother-in-law and her daughter’s husband. Because it generalizes negatively about family roles, it can sound insulting or hurtful when directed at actual relatives; use it with care and avoid applying it to a specific person.
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