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«اِلرَّاجِلِ ابْنِ الرَّاجِلْ اِللِّي عُمْرُهْ مَا يْشَاوِرْ مَرَهْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

A true man, born of a true man, never once in his life seeks a woman's advice.

Literal wording

The man, son of the man, is the one who never in his life consults a woman.

Meaning and lesson

The proverb defines ideal manhood, inherited from a father of the same caliber, as never asking a woman for advice. Firmness and self-reliance in decisions are cast as masculine virtues, and consulting a wife or other woman is implied to signal weakness or a lapse in proper authority.

Beneath the praise of decisiveness lies a clear assumption that women's opinions are unreliable or beneath a man's dignity. Its message therefore rests on gender hierarchy, and any modern reader should recognize it as voicing a historical folk prejudice, not endorsed advice, about who deserves to be heard in personal and family matters.

When it is used

Use it to praise a man who makes decisions without consulting women, or to criticize a husband who seeks a wife's counsel. Its approving tone assumes male authority and treats women's advice as beneath a man's dignity; quoted today, it will sound openly sexist.

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