«اِللِّي لَهَا طَرْحَهْ تُخُش بْفَرْحَهْ»

The saying contrasts the comfort of visiting a household linked through one’s own female kin with the unease of entering through marriage ties. Its headscarf image is figurative: it means having one’s own relative in the home, not simply possessing clothing.

In its traditional framing, it suggests that a woman may be welcomed more confidently where her own relatives hold influence, while a husband’s female relatives may receive a cooler welcome. It reflects gendered in-law dynamics and should not be treated as a general rule about families or women.

Used when discussing why a woman may feel freer visiting a home connected to her own kin than one linked only by marriage; it comments on the practical value of family support within a household.