Adversity flattereth no man.

Hardship does not soften its message to protect anyone’s pride. Its difficulties remain difficult regardless of how a person wishes to be seen.

The saying points to the sobering side of adversity: it offers little comfort or praise, and leaves people to face their circumstances without indulgence.

Use this proverb in sober reflection on a difficult experience, especially when someone must set aside comforting assumptions and confront an unwelcome reality. It is more pointed than consoling.