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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«كُلْ وِسْطْ وِانْعَسْ طَرفْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

At the meal, sit in the middle; when you sleep, take the edge.

Literal wording

Eat in the middle, and sleep at the edge.

Meaning and lesson

The saying gives practical counsel on where to place yourself among a group. At a communal meal around a shared dish, take the middle seat: diners on the outer seats rise first to wash their hands, leaving you free to keep eating until you are completely full.

When sleeping beside others, the advice reverses: settle at the outer edge, so getting up at night does not mean climbing over bodies or being hemmed in. The counsel is openly self-serving, best read as wry folk shrewdness about securing the best spot rather than as a model of generosity.

When it is used

Use it as playful, practical advice when people share a common dish or sleeping space, or to tease someone who always grabs the most convenient spot. Its knowing, slightly cheeky tone suits casual conversation.

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