- English translation
Better to be alone than to travel with a companion who wears you down.
- Literal wording
Solitude, and not the companion who causes hardship.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying ranks being on one's own above keeping company with someone who brings strain and difficulty. Companionship is valued only when it eases life; a partner who constantly causes trouble turns that value upside down, making isolation the gentler option.
In practice it serves as a justification for stepping away from a burdensome relationship or refusing an unwelcome associate. It frames solitude not as a misfortune but as the preferable choice when the alternative is ongoing hardship and exhaustion, not mere annoyance.
- When it is used
Suitable when someone is weighing whether to keep a draining friend, partner, or travel companion, or when justifying a decision to go it alone. It can reassure a person who fears loneliness that being alone is the lesser hardship.
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