- English translation
Better to ride your own limping donkey than to go begging from a scoundrel.
- Literal wording
Your lame she-donkey spares you from asking the mean-spirited one.
- Meaning and lesson
A flawed thing that truly belongs to you is worth more than a better one you must beg for. Even a limping animal gets you where you need to go without forcing you to approach an ungracious person for help.
The saying weighs dignity against convenience. Asking favors of the mean-spirited invites a harsh refusal or a gift paid for in endless reminders, so modest self-sufficiency is presented as the wiser and more honorable choice.
- When it is used
Fits moments when someone chooses to make do with a worn tool, old car, or modest income instead of borrowing from a person likely to grumble, refuse rudely, or remind them of the favor later. It praises self-reliance and dignity over convenience.
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