- English translation
Between those who love each other, even anger is a form of goodwill.
- Literal wording
The fury of the loved ones is contentment.
- Meaning and lesson
When people are bound by genuine affection, even real fury flaring between them, not only mild irritation, carries no lasting weight. A harsh word or a sulk does not cancel the underlying goodwill, so such displeasure can be read as compatible with continued contentment, approval and love.
The saying rests on a condition: hearts must remain sincere toward one another. It encourages patience and forgiveness in close relationships, inviting the listener to look past momentary friction rather than treat a quarrel as a break. It does not justify hostility or mistreatment within a relationship.
- When it is used
Suited to reassuring someone after a spat with a close friend, spouse or relative, or to brushing off a loved one's temporary displeasure. It works best when affection on both sides is clear; said to someone genuinely wronged, it may sound dismissive, and it never excuses mistreatment.
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