«كُتْرِ الْعِتَابْ يِفَرَّقِ الْأَحْبَابْ»

The saying warns that close relationships cannot survive an endless stream of affectionate reproach, the hurt complaints intimates voice to one another rather than harsh insults. One such complaint may clear the air, but when it is repeated again and again, it gradually drives the loved ones apart, and affection gives way to resentment.

It also recommends tolerance and selective silence. Rather than pointing out every lapse by a friend or relative, a wise person overlooks small faults and saves reproach for what truly matters, because restraint keeps the bond intact far longer than constant correction does.

Suitable for gently advising someone who keeps airing grievances with a friend, spouse, or relative, warning that repeated complaint wears down affection. It works best as a mild caution rather than a rebuke, and can also be said about oneself when deciding to let a minor slight pass.