- English translation
Constant harshness tears love out by its roots.
- Literal wording
Much ill-treatment cuts the roots of love.
- Meaning and lesson
Repeated unkindness gradually destroys affection. The key word means ill-treatment and harshness, not grief. One harsh act may be forgiven, but habitual cruelty reaches love's deepest roots, or veins, and severs them, until warmth between people fades as a natural consequence.
The saying works as a caution to anyone who takes a bond for granted. However strong a relationship seems, it cannot survive endless mistreatment, and whoever keeps wounding others should not be surprised when their love finally withers.
- When it is used
Suited to moments when someone keeps mistreating a spouse, relative, or friend and still expects loyalty. It can serve as a warning before the damage is done or as an explanation after affection has already cooled.
- Register
- colloquial
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