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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«كُتْرِ الْأَسِيَّهْ تِقْطَعْ عُرُوقِ الْمَحَبَّهْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Constant harshness tears love out by its roots.

Literal wording

Much ill-treatment cuts the roots of love.

Meaning and lesson

Repeated unkindness gradually destroys affection. The key word means ill-treatment and harshness, not grief. One harsh act may be forgiven, but habitual cruelty reaches love's deepest roots, or veins, and severs them, until warmth between people fades as a natural consequence.

The saying works as a caution to anyone who takes a bond for granted. However strong a relationship seems, it cannot survive endless mistreatment, and whoever keeps wounding others should not be surprised when their love finally withers.

When it is used

Suited to moments when someone keeps mistreating a spouse, relative, or friend and still expects loyalty. It can serve as a warning before the damage is done or as an explanation after affection has already cooled.

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