- English translation
Do not give away what your own household needs.
- Literal wording
What the household needs is forbidden to the mosque.
- Meaning and lesson
A person should first secure the necessities of their own home before making charitable gifts or other contributions. Generosity should not leave one’s dependants without essentials.
The proverb uses mosque imagery, but its broader point is meeting household needs before charitable giving. It cautions against public generosity that creates private hardship.
- When it is used
Used when someone considers donating money, food, or household goods despite their family needing them. It can advise prudent budgeting or criticize charity made at the expense of those one is responsible for.
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