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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«لَا تْدِم وَلَا تُشْكُرْ إِلَّا بَعْدِ سَنَه وْسِتُّ اشْهُرْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Do not praise or criticize until a year and a half has passed.

Literal wording

Do not criticize and do not praise except after a year and six months.

Meaning and lesson

The saying advises withholding both praise and criticism until enough time has passed for experience to reveal a sound basis for judgment. Early impressions are not treated as sufficient grounds for a firm evaluation.

Its stated period emphasizes patience in forming an opinion. Rather than reacting to an initial appearance, a person should wait until sustained acquaintance provides fuller knowledge of what is being assessed.

When it is used

It can be used to caution someone against praising or criticizing a person or thing too quickly, urging them to wait for longer experience before making a settled judgment.

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