«بَلَاشْ تِوَكِّلْنِي فَرْخَهْ سْمِينَهْ، وِتْبَيِّتْنِي حَزِينَهْ»

The saying criticizes a favor that is spoiled by later hurtful conduct. Its image of a fat chicken represents substantial hospitality or generosity, not food itself; such generosity does not excuse humiliation, anger, or other injury.

It expresses a preference for kindness that remains kind over a gift followed by reproach. It targets conduct that mixes help with emotional harm, rather than generosity alone: when goodwill turns into harm, the earlier favor loses its value.

Use it to object when someone pairs help, hospitality, or a gift with later insults, resentment, or emotional mistreatment. It can also warn that generosity should not become a means of making another person feel indebted or distressed.