- Meaning and lesson
The saying recommends reserving the name of friendship for a small circle of people known well and trusted deeply. One may meet, know, or deal pleasantly with many others without treating every social connection as a close friend.
It values discernment in relationships rather than isolation. The contrast suggests that broad social contact can be useful, while genuine friendship usually requires loyalty, knowledge, and care that cannot readily be extended to a large number of people.
- When it is used
Use it when advising someone to distinguish close, dependable friends from the wider set of people they know. It can suit reflection on social circles, networking, or the limits of time and trust, and should not be used to dismiss casual acquaintances as unimportant.
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Report an issue with this meaning: Have but few friends, though many acquaintances.