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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«رَاحْ يُخْطُبْهَا لُهْ اِجَّوِّزْهَا»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

He went to propose on his friend's behalf and came back married to her himself.

Literal wording

He went to ask for her hand for him; he married her.

Meaning and lesson

The picture is of a man sent to seek a woman's hand for someone else who ends up marrying her himself. The courtship scene is only a frame: service as a trusted go-between turns into taking the very prize he was meant to secure for another.

More broadly, it condemns a base person who is asked to help with some matter and then grabs the benefit for himself. Aimed at a real person, it accuses them of base betrayal, not mere luck or rivalry, through the contrast between the helping role accepted and the selfish outcome arranged.

When it is used

Say it, with a sardonic edge, when any intermediary trusted to act for another, such as negotiating or seeking a favor, hijacks the outcome for personal gain. Applied to someone, it is a serious charge of betrayal; it also warns about choosing intermediaries.

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