- English translation
I care for you, and you repay me by pulling down my shelter.
- Literal wording
I tend to you like a nurse, while you cut my tent pegs.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying rebukes someone who answers kindness with harm. It contrasts protective, attentive care with an act that destroys the security and support of the person offering that care.
It is used when a beneficiary proves ungrateful or hostile, especially when their conduct damages the interests, standing, or stability of someone who has helped them. The image of cutting tent pegs suggests dismantling that person’s shelter or foundations, not merely causing a minor inconvenience.
- When it is used
Say it as a pointed complaint about betrayal or ingratitude after generosity. It suits situations where help is returned with actions that undermine the helper’s security or stability, rather than merely with a lack of thanks.
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