- English translation
If it suits you, accept it; if it does not, direct your attention somewhere else.
- Literal wording
If it is pleasing to you, it is pleasing to you; if it is not pleasing to you, turn your drum.
- Meaning and lesson
The proverb separates what is agreeable from what is not. When circumstances are satisfactory, it advises being content with them rather than disturbing a situation that is already working.
Where satisfaction is absent, the figurative image of turning one’s drum means redirecting attention or activity. It favors moving one’s interest elsewhere instead of remaining absorbed in a matter that offers no contentment.
- When it is used
Used to advise acceptance of an arrangement that feels right, while suggesting a change of focus when it does not. The drum is figurative, not a call to literal action. It suits decisions about whether to continue with a matter or look elsewhere.
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