«اِللِّي يِدِّي لَكْ كِتْفُهْ إِدِّي لُهْ ضَهْرَكْ»

The saying advises withdrawing completely from someone whose gesture shows contempt, aversion, or deliberate distancing. Rather than continue seeking their regard, one answers a clear rejection by ending the connection.

Its force lies in meeting an unmistakable rebuff with a refusal to pursue the other person, presenting disengagement as dignity-preserving. It is not aimed at every minor disagreement or brief inattention, and may urge a final break more strongly than circumstances warrant.

Used to advise someone not to chase the approval or company of a person who has shown visible coldness or contempt, especially where rejection is clear; it is less apt for a minor slight or temporary lack of attention.