- English translation
If you boast about your father and grandfather, prove yourself by what you do.
- Literal wording
Whoever says, “My father and my grandfather,” should show us his own deeds.
- Meaning and lesson
A person cannot earn respect merely by invoking distinguished parents or ancestors. Their own conduct and accomplishments must demonstrate that they deserve the honor they claim through family connection.
The saying rebukes inherited pride and redirects attention from ancestry to personal merit. It is an admonition, not an endorsement of assumptions about people based on family background, and may sound confrontational when addressed directly.
- When it is used
Used to challenge someone who relies on family prestige, lineage, or ancestral achievements instead of demonstrating personal ability, character, or contribution. It can be a blunt reminder that reputation should be supported by one’s own actions, so direct use may sound confrontational.
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