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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِلإِيدِ اللِّي مَا تِقْدَرْ تِقْطَعْهَا بُوسْهَا»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

If you cannot overcome a powerful hand, show it deference.

Literal wording

Kiss the hand that you cannot cut off.

Meaning and lesson

When a stronger person or force cannot be resisted, the proverb counsels restraint and outward accommodation rather than open confrontation. It presents submission as a practical response to unequal power.

The saying can express hard, calculating realism: protect yourself by yielding where defiance would fail. Its forceful imagery may also convey bitterness or criticism of compelled deference, rather than approval of submission.

When it is used

Used when advising someone not to provoke an opponent who is presently too powerful to challenge. It may be serious tactical counsel or a critical remark about being forced to flatter or yield to power, and can sound cynical or humiliating depending on tone.

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