- English translation
It all stays in the family; we had everything we needed among ourselves.
- Literal wording
Our oil is in our flour.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying pictures a self-contained household staple: the oil and the flour both belong to the same people. It describes an arrangement that stays inside one circle, where everything needed is already on hand, so nothing has to be brought in from outside.
By extension it carries a note of self-reliance and closeness within the group. Its sense is best kept to self-sufficiency and keeping matters among those involved, rather than stretched to describe particular social customs or practices.
- When it is used
Fits moments when a group, family, or set of partners settles a matter using only their own people and means, or wants to stress that no outsider was needed.
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