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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«مَاشِي نِدَّكْ وِامْشِي عَلَى قَدَّكْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Keep company with your equals, and walk within your own limits.

Literal wording

Walk alongside your equal, and walk according to your own measure.

Meaning and lesson

The saying, opening with a command to walk alongside one's equal, urges a person to choose companions who are their peers, people of similar standing, temperament, or circumstances. Friendships and partnerships between equals tend to be easier and more balanced, sparing both sides the strain that comes from mismatched expectations or resources.

Its rhyming second half adds a call to self-restraint: walk within your own measure, a word that can mean standing, capacity, or walking pace. Do not reach for more than you can sustain. Keep a measured, moderate course in conduct and pace rather than straining to keep up with others. The rhyme carries much of the saying's force.

When it is used

Suitable as gentle advice when someone seeks friends, partners, or rivals far above or below their own station, or when they overreach or rush beyond their ability. It counsels matching companions to oneself and keeping a steady, modest pace.

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