- English translation
Keep your honey if it comes from a monkey's face.
- Literal wording
May the honeycomb be gone, away from the face of the monkey.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying describes refusing something sweet and desirable because of where it comes from. The honey stands for any real benefit, and the monkey's face stands for a giver whose appearance or behavior is repellent. Distaste for the giver outweighs the value of the gift.
It reflects an old judgment that ugliness of form or manners spoils whatever a person offers; the monkey image is an insult, not a view to endorse. A speaker may use it to justify their own refusal, or to comment on someone who rejects an advantage because they cannot stand its source.
- When it is used
Use it when someone turns down a good offer or favor because the giver is disliked or seen as ill-natured. It is a curt, scornful dismissal of the source, harsh and demeaning if aimed at a real person; never use it to mock someone's physical appearance.
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