- English translation
Kind words keep a person out of harm's way.
- Literal wording
A human being's safety lies within the sweetness of the tongue.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying ties personal safety to the way one speaks. Someone whose words are gentle, courteous and pleasant to hear is spared much of the trouble that harsh or careless talk invites, so softness of speech becomes self-protection. The sweetness meant is genuine courtesy, not flattery, insincerity or deceptive charm.
The point is practical rather than purely moral: agreeable speech calms tempers, avoids giving offence and keeps hostility from forming. The safety promised is freedom from conflict and ill will, not success, wealth or influence. A sharp or wounding tongue, by contrast, makes adversaries and brings consequences back upon the speaker.
- When it is used
Suited to advising someone to speak gently, especially a person whose bluntness or sharp remarks are stirring up resentment, or when urging tact during a tense exchange where calm, courteous words could prevent a quarrel or other harm.
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