- English translation
Let your enemy see you well dressed rather than well fed.
- Literal wording
Pass by your enemy clothed, and do not pass by him stuffed.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying ranks what an enemy can see above what he cannot. A belly full of food is invisible to a hostile onlooker, but shabby clothing announces hardship and invites gloating. So the sensible person spends on looking well rather than eating well when an adversary is watching.
More broadly, it counsels concealing poverty from those who would enjoy it, not vanity for its own sake. It accepts private sacrifice, even going short on food, to keep a dignified face before rivals who judge by outward show.
- When it is used
Suitable when advising someone with limited means to put money into clothing or visible standing rather than food when rivals are watching, so as to deny them cause to gloat. It can also be offered as wry encouragement to keep up appearances in hard times.
- Register
- colloquial
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