- English translation
My heart breaks over my own flesh and blood, while theirs toward me is hard as stone.
- Literal wording
My heart split open over my offspring, and my offspring's heart toward me is stone.
- Meaning and lesson
This saying gives voice to how intensely parents feel for their offspring, whether one child or several. The parent's heart is pictured as split or cracked open, an image far stronger than ordinary worry, suggesting compassion so deep that it seems to wound the very person who carries it.
The second half turns to the offspring, whose heart toward the parent is stone. The line can be heard two ways: as a lament over love that goes unreturned, edged with reproach for indifference, or as a way of showing that a parent's tenderness persists even when met with coldness. Both readings rest on that stark imbalance.
- When it is used
Suited to remarks on how deep a parent's tenderness runs, especially when describing a mother's or father's anxious care set beside the much cooler feeling their offspring show toward them.
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