- English translation
No one can find the way to a sick man's door, but a healthy man has friends beyond counting.
- Literal wording
The sick one, no one knows the way to his door; and the healthy one, oh how many are his loved ones!
- Meaning and lesson
The saying observes that illness empties the doorway of any sick person, man or woman. While someone lies sick, acquaintances seem to forget how to reach the house, yet once that same person is healthy and active, admirers and companions appear in great numbers. The contrast exposes how attention follows strength rather than need.
Its sting is a complaint about neglect. People are expected to visit and comfort the ailing, so the proverb rebukes those who withhold sympathy when it matters most. More broadly, it questions the loyalty of friends whose closeness depends on someone's good condition and usefulness.
- When it is used
Use when someone is ill and few people visit or check on them, especially if those same people flocked around while the person was well. It voices a sick person's hurt or an observer's criticism.
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