Explore Arabic traditional proverbsReviewed 2026-10-28
Meaning: Verified- English translation
Once the parents are gone, honor is humiliation.
- Literal wording
Honor after the parents is humiliation.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying sets honor against humiliation and makes the death of one's parents the dividing line between them: whatever passes for honor once mother and father have died is, in the speaker's eyes, nothing but humiliation.
It works as a lament, voiced chiefly by women whose parents have died, giving words to the grief that any regard left to them afterward feels like abasement.
- When it is used
Said mostly by women after the death of their parents, as an expression of mourning. It fits moments when a bereaved woman reflects on her parents' passing and on what remains to her without them.
- Community
- Mostly women who have lost their parents
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