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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«عَوِيلْ يِكْرَهْ عَوِيلْ وِصَاحِبِ الْبِيِتْ يِكْرَهْ الِاتْنِينْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

One freeloader can't stand another, and the host can't stand either of them.

Literal wording

A worthless sponger hates a worthless sponger, and the owner of the house hates the two of them.

Meaning and lesson

People who live off someone else's generosity tend to see one another as rivals. Each freeloader, here called عويل, a dialect term for a lowly sponger, not the standard word for wailing, resents the other for sharing the same handouts, so dependence breeds hostility.

Meanwhile, the person who bears the cost likes neither. A variant names a beggar (شحات) instead, with the same point. The proverb disparagingly mocks the petty feuds of dependents, whose quarrel means nothing to a provider who would gladly be rid of both.

When it is used

Used wryly or critically, and best applied with care since it casts real people as parasites and can offend, when two hangers-on resent each other for competing over one host's generosity while the host tires of both. It fits household, family, or workplace squabbles among dependents.

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