- English translation
One freeloader can't stand another, and the host can't stand either of them.
- Literal wording
A worthless sponger hates a worthless sponger, and the owner of the house hates the two of them.
- Meaning and lesson
People who live off someone else's generosity tend to see one another as rivals. Each freeloader, here called عويل, a dialect term for a lowly sponger, not the standard word for wailing, resents the other for sharing the same handouts, so dependence breeds hostility.
Meanwhile, the person who bears the cost likes neither. A variant names a beggar (شحات) instead, with the same point. The proverb disparagingly mocks the petty feuds of dependents, whose quarrel means nothing to a provider who would gladly be rid of both.
- When it is used
Used wryly or critically, and best applied with care since it casts real people as parasites and can offend, when two hangers-on resent each other for competing over one host's generosity while the host tires of both. It fits household, family, or workplace squabbles among dependents.
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