- English translation
Only your own flesh and blood will shoulder your troubles.
- Literal wording
No one carries your worry except the one who is from your blood.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying holds that real concern for a person's troubles comes from kin. Here blood means kinship, not physical blood or violence: a child or close relative feels the hardship as their own, is grieved by it, and shares the weight rather than merely watching.
The two halves rhyme on hammak and dammak, tying worry to blood in sound as well as sense. Through its 'none but' structure, the line implies rather than states that outsiders, however friendly, may offer kind words yet will not truly take up someone else's burden.
- When it is used
Suits moments when a person in hardship finds that relatives, not acquaintances, are the ones who step in, or when urging someone to treasure and lean on family. It can also quietly hint that support from friends or outsiders turned out to be thin.
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