Explore Arabic traditional proverbsReviewed 2026-10-13
Meaning: Verified- English translation
She played hard to get when they proposed, but regretted it after they withdrew.
- Literal wording
They proposed to her; she acted aloof; they left her; she regretted it.
- Meaning and lesson
It warns that refusing something one actually wants merely to appear proud or difficult can cause a missed opportunity. Once others withdraw their offer, regret may come too late to change the result.
The criticism concerns a desired offer refused out of pride. It should not be used to assume that a genuine refusal conceals a wish to accept, or to justify disregarding another person’s refusal.
- When it is used
It is used for someone who turns down a wanted opportunity out of pride or affectation, then regrets the refusal after the offer is no longer available.
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