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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِلْعِرْسْ وِالْمَعْمَعَهْ وِالْعَرُوسَهْ ضُفْدَعَهْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

So much wedding fuss, and the bride is a frog.

Literal wording

The wedding and the uproar, and the bride a frog.

Meaning and lesson

The saying mocks a great show of noise and excitement over something that does not merit it. A wedding brings crowds and bustle, all centred on the bride; picturing her as a frog shows that the whole celebration surrounds something unworthy of such attention. The frog is a crude jab at looks, used here as an image only.

In everyday terms, it points to a mismatch between attention and worth. It suits moments when people make a fuss over a person, plan or event that proves ordinary or disappointing, implying that the excitement was never justified. Its mockery targets that gap, not weddings or celebrations in general.

When it is used

Say it ironically when much excitement or effort surrounds something that turns out to be unremarkable. It fits casual conversation among people who share the joke; said within earshot of those behind the fuss, it can sound belittling. Aimed at a real bride or person, it is a personal insult.

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