- English translation
Someone who resents you will tell you to take only what is nearest to you.
- Literal wording
The one who dislikes you says, “Eat from what is directly in front of you.”
- Meaning and lesson
An ill-disposed person tries to restrict another’s advantage, even in small matters. The saying portrays hostility as a wish to deny someone choice, comfort, or a better share.
It cautions that animosity may appear through petty limits rather than open attack. A person’s attitude can be recognized when they begrudge even minor benefits that cost them little to allow.
- When it is used
Used to comment on someone whose dislike shows in small, ungenerous restrictions, especially when they prevent another person from choosing freely or receiving a fair advantage.
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