- English translation
Spend your days with the fortunate and their good fortune rubs off on you; spend them with the disreputable and their disgrace rubs off on you too.
- Literal wording
Whoever keeps company with the happy one becomes happy, and whoever keeps company with the blemished one becomes blemished.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying holds that people absorb the qualities of those they spend time with. Living or working closely beside someone blessed, fortunate, and of good character, not merely cheerful, draws a share of that blessing onto oneself, until one comes to resemble that person in luck and in conduct.
The reverse also holds: steady association with someone figuratively 'chipped' by bad behavior and tarnished name, not physical injury, damages one's own standing. Others judge the companion by the same measure, and the companion may adopt the same faults, so the warning concerns both reputation and gradual shaping of character.
- When it is used
Suitable when advising someone, especially a young person, about choosing friends or associates, or when explaining why a person's standing rose or fell after joining a particular circle. It works as gentle counsel or as a pointed remark about bad company.
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