- English translation
Stay watchful with your friend, but never treat him as disloyal.
- Literal wording
Keep guard against your companion, and do not count him a traitor.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying separates private caution from open suspicion. A person may sensibly keep some protection in place even with a close companion, holding back what could be lost or misused, while never regarding or treating that companion as a traitor. The warning is against presuming disloyalty, not against committing betrayal.
The balance serves two goals at once. Discreet watchfulness spares you harm if trust fails, and withholding accusations keeps the friendship intact, because a friend who feels suspected may grow resentful or distant even when innocent.
- When it is used
Suitable when advising someone to protect their interests within a friendship or partnership, such as guarding money or secrets, without voicing suspicion or damaging the relationship. It frames prudence as a private habit rather than open distrust or an accusation.
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