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«خَدُوا جُوزِ الْخَرْسَهْ اتْكَلِّمِتْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Take away a mute woman's husband, and even she will find her voice.

Literal wording

They took the mute woman's husband; she spoke.

Meaning and lesson

Traditionally applied to wives' jealousy, the proverb uses an impossible image to show how fierce that jealousy can be. A mute woman finds her voice the moment her husband is taken from her. Here جوز means 'husband', not 'walnut' or 'pair'. The premise reflects a gendered stereotype, not a truth about women.

In broader terms, the line suggests that losing something you hold dear can provoke a reaction nobody expected. Someone normally silent or passive may suddenly protest when a deeply personal attachment is threatened. The miracle of speech is deliberate hyperbole, not a literal claim about people who cannot speak.

When it is used

Used humorously or pointedly when someone usually quiet suddenly protests loudly because a spouse seems threatened by a rival. Its gendered premise and its use of muteness as a joke may seem dismissive or offensive today, so it is best kept to informal, familiar company.

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