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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِلضِّحْكْ عَ الشَّفَاتِيرْ وِالْقَلْبْ يِسْبُغْ مَنَادِيلْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

The lips may be laughing while the heart's grief is dark enough to dye handkerchiefs.

Literal wording

Laughter is on the lips, and the heart is dyeing handkerchiefs.

Meaning and lesson

The saying warns that a cheerful face can be a mask. Someone may smile and laugh outwardly while carrying a sorrow so heavy and dark that, in the proverb's figurative image, it could dye cloth; the image describes hidden grief, not actual cloth or any craft. Outward merriment is no proof of inner contentment.

It also reflects a common human habit of hiding grief behind good manners or forced laughter. The listener is invited to look beyond appearances, to show compassion toward those who seem fine, and to avoid judging another person's state by their expression alone.

When it is used

Fits moments when someone seems cheerful in company but is privately suffering, as a warning not to take a smile at face value or a sympathetic remark about a friend's hidden distress. It suits personal, conversational settings rather than formal ones.

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