- Meaning and lesson
What has already passed cannot be used to power present action. The saying urges attention to what remains possible now, rather than relying on a chance, resource, or moment that has gone by.
It can counsel acceptance when a loss or delay has left necessary conditions unavailable. It does not mean that every past mistake is beyond repair; rather, regret alone cannot restore what is no longer available, so one must adapt to the circumstances still at hand.
- When it is used
Use it when someone keeps looking to an expired opportunity or a resource that can no longer be recovered. It suits reflective advice about moving forward, but may sound dismissive if offered too quickly to a person facing grief or serious loss.
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Report an issue with this meaning: The mill cannot grind with the water that is past.