- English translation
The one I fetched to ease my fear ended up giving me the fright.
- Literal wording
I brought the bald man to keep me company; he uncovered his head and frightened me.
- Meaning and lesson
At its core the saying captures help that backfires: a person called upon to get someone out of a predicament proves to be the very one who causes it. The expected remedy and the actual harm turn out to share a single source.
Because the speaker chose the companion, the line also carries a rueful note of self-blame. The bald man is a figure in the image, not a literal remark on baldness: uncovering his head becomes the scare, so the protection sought becomes the threat faced.
- When it is used
Suited to wry complaint when an arranged helper brings about the very trouble, not one who merely fails to fix it. It also fits commenting on someone else's poorly chosen helper. Avoid aiming it at a bald person, where it could read as mockery of appearance.
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