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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«عَلِّمْنَاهُمْ عَ الشِّحَاتَهْ سَبَقُونَا عَلَى الْأَبْوَابْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

We showed them how to beg, and now they reach the doors before we do.

Literal wording

We taught them begging; they got ahead of us at the doors.

Meaning and lesson

The saying laments being outdone by the very people one helped. Having passed on a skill or a means of earning, the teacher finds the students reaching the same doors first, the households where alms are sought, competing for the same limited goodwill.

Beyond the rivalry, it charges ingratitude: the newcomers forget who opened the way. Begging serves as a deliberately humble, almost comic image for any craft someone shares and then loses ground in. A singular variant, "we taught him," carries the same sense.

When it is used

Use it when someone you trained or introduced to a trade now competes against you for the same customers or favors, without acknowledging your help. It suits wry complaint among peers; aimed directly at the former learner, its rueful, accusatory edge can sound like an insult.

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