- English translation
We're dying of vanity, and we just can't help it.
- Literal wording
Self-admiration is killing us, not of our own choosing.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying mocks a person whose pride in themselves has grown so large that it seems to rule them. The image of being killed is hyperbole: vanity has utterly overpowered them, an overwhelming condition rather than an occasional lapse in modesty, with no literal reference to death.
Its sting lies in the mock excuse: the vain person cannot help it, because the trait feels inborn rather than deliberately chosen. This voices both criticism and resignation, suggesting that such conceit is a fixed part of character that no amount of advice is likely to cure.
- When it is used
Say it wryly about someone so taken with themselves that they cannot stop showing off. Though phrased as a first-person plural confession, it usually targets another person's conceit, so the voice is ironic and mock-confessional, not sincere self-reproach. Expect it to sound teasing or reproachful.
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