- English translation
Whatever a guest does will be talked about by the host.
- Literal wording
What the guest does, the householder talks about.
- Meaning and lesson
The saying warns that actions within another person’s home are likely to be noticed and repeated. It presents hospitality as a setting in which conduct is visible rather than private.
More broadly, it conveys the idea that concealment is difficult: someone who witnesses an act may disclose it. A reversed variant shifts this suspicion of exposure from the guest to the householder.
- When it is used
Use it when cautioning that behavior in a host’s home may become known or discussed. It can also comment on the general likelihood that observed actions will not remain secret, but the guest-and-host framing may sound accusatory and calls for care.
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