Explore English traditional proverbsReviewed 2026-10-29
Meaning: Verified- Meaning and lesson
The saying observes that companions may stay only while they are well looked after. Here, “good cheer” includes generous hospitality: food, drink, a warm welcome, and pleasant company.
It casts doubt on the loyalty of companions who leave when meals, comforts, or other benefits cease. The saying faults fair-weather friendship, rather than blaming a host who lacks the means to entertain.
- When it is used
Use it wryly when companions disappear after hospitality, money, or pleasant circumstances run out. It criticizes people who stay for benefits rather than offering advice to provide better food or livelier entertainment.
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Report an issue with this meaning: When good cheer is lacking our friends will be packing.