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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِلْمَحَبَّه تْقَلِّلْ شُرُوطِ الْأَدَبْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Where there is real affection, formalities can be relaxed.

Literal wording

Affection lessens the conditions of good manners.

Meaning and lesson

Close affection between people loosens the demands of etiquette; here adab means courtesy, not literature. Among those who truly care for one another, polite rituals, careful phrasing, and ceremonial courtesies matter less, because the bond itself already shows the respect that manners usually signal.

The saying can explain informal behavior among intimates, such as dropping titles, skipping pleasantries, or speaking frankly. It treats relaxed conduct as a sign of trust, not a license for rudeness or disrespect: it concerns ceremonial niceties, while basic consideration and respect still remain owed.

When it is used

Suitable when a close friend or relative skips customary formalities, or to reassure someone worried about being too casual with an intimate. It can also gently explain why loved ones speak frankly with each other, though not to excuse hurtful treatment.

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