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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«اِللِّي يِعْمِلْ نَفْسُهُ نُخَالَهْ تِبَعْتَرُهْ الْفِرَاخْ»

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

Whoever treats himself as worthless will be treated that way by others.

Literal wording

Whoever makes himself into bran, the chickens will scatter him.

Meaning and lesson

The proverb warns that someone who willingly lowers their own standing or accepts degrading treatment may invite further disrespect. It stresses self-respect and cautions against making oneself an easy target for contempt, while not excusing those who choose to behave contemptuously.

Its image is deliberately homely: chickens kick through bran as they feed. By comparing self-abasement to becoming feed under their feet, the saying suggests that others may treat a person carelessly when that person presents themselves as having little dignity or value.

When it is used

Use it as a rebuke or caution about repeatedly allowing humiliation, acting needlessly servile, or failing to defend reasonable boundaries. Because it can sound like blame toward a mistreated person, avoid using it to judge anyone facing coercion, abuse, or unequal power.

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