- English translation
"Why are you so scared?" "Because of what happened that one time," she replied.
- Literal wording
"What is the matter with you, frightened one?" She said: "From that time."
- Meaning and lesson
The saying depicts a frightened woman who, asked why she is afraid, points to a single earlier incident. It captures how one painful experience can leave a lasting nervousness, so that the mere prospect of a repeat is enough to put a person on guard.
In use, it explains caution that may look excessive to an onlooker but makes sense to the person who was hurt before. The fear is not imagined; it is the residue of something that really happened once, and it now shapes how that person approaches similar situations.
- When it is used
Fits moments when someone flinches, hesitates, or takes extra precautions, and the cause is a bad experience they already lived through. It can explain one's own wariness or gently account for another's nervousness, often with a wry or sympathetic tone.
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