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Arabic · Arabic scriptProverb: Verified

«مَالْ لَحْمِتَكْ مِشَغَّتَهْ؟ قَالْ: مِنْ جَزَّارْ مِعْرِفَهْ»

Meanings

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Meaning: Verified
English translation

"Why is your meat nothing but gristle and scraps?" "Because I bought it from a butcher I know."

Literal wording

"What's with your meat, full of scraps?" He said: "From a butcher of acquaintance."

Meaning and lesson

The saying mocks the belief that knowing a seller personally guarantees fair treatment. Asked why his meat is full of gristle, scraps and offcuts, the buyer answers that it came from a butcher he knows personally. The irony is that the friendship that should have protected him is exactly why he was cheated.

The traditional explanation draws a lesson about trust and commerce: it holds that traders mostly look to their own interest, and that a trusting friend who skips inspecting the goods becomes the easiest customer to cheat. This is the saying's own outlook, not a fair judgment of all merchants.

When it is used

Use this wryly when someone has been shortchanged by a merchant or tradesperson they trusted as a friend. It warns against relaxing your guard because of personal ties, and suits teasing or rueful comment more than formal accusation.

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