Explore English traditional proverbsReviewed 2026-10-26
Meaning: Verified- Meaning and lesson
Peaceful living is not secured by one person alone. Because neighbours—broadly, those nearby or with connected interests—affect one another’s comfort, a person should consult them and take their concerns seriously.
The saying recommends cooperation before conflict develops. It presents good relations with those one must live alongside as a practical condition of peace, rather than something that can simply be imposed.
- When it is used
Use this saying when stressing that shared boundaries, local decisions, or everyday coexistence require consultation and consideration for nearby people or others whose interests are closely connected.
Cite or copy proverb
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Report an issue with this meaning: You must ask your neighbour if you shall live in peace.